For Men

My Girlfriend is Pregnant… Now What?!

Once she’s missed a period, everything can change—fast. Although she makes the final decision, most women really care what their partner thinks. Here are a few tips to help you make a decision you both agree on:

  • Let her know how important she is to you. Don’t pressure her to make a decision or check out emotionally. Commit to exploring your options together and getting whatever help you need to strengthen your relationship.
  • Let her know you’re there for her, each step of the way. Start by offering to go with her to her pregnancy testing appointment​.
  • Once the pregnancy has been confirmed, explore your pregnancy options together. Communicate openly about your feelings and consider which option might be best for you as a couple.
  • Listen to her thoughts and feelings. Ask her about her hopes or fears regarding abortion, adoption, and parenting. It may also help to get advice from someone you both trust!

Support for Men in Ellensburg, Washington

Before considering abortion, it’s essential to confirm your pregnancy and determine how far along you are. Sparrow offers:

  • Free medical-grade pregnancy tests – Get accurate results you can trust
  • Free ultrasounds – Confirm pregnancy viability and an estimated gestational age (how far along you are in your pregnancy)

Please be aware that Sparrow does not provide or refer for abortion services. We provide educational information about all pregnancy options to help you make an informed decision.